You have no idea how much I wish this was true! For if it was, my Birthday would have had a week long celebration with a public holiday on the Monday.
I am always the greatest friend. I surprise my friends with flowers when they're sick. I pick them up from hospital after surgeries. I defend them when they are being bullied. I buy them underwear when I see some on sale. I would love to have me as a friend. Don't get me wrong, I can be moody and demanding, but I'm still a generous, thoughtful, kind person.
Yet, when I need someone, they're too busy or in relationships with dick-heads so I'm not a priority. I am so over girls putting boys before their friends. In fact, I'm kind of over girls all together. All of my friends are in their early 20's, so when do they stop being bitchy and skanky and start being good friends?
When they look around and realise how much life sucks without good girlfriends, they start to wonder why they don't have them anymore. Then, and only then, can they alter their behaviour in order to maintain such friendships in their adult years. As kids and teens we put up with a lot, but as adults we (hopefully) aquire some self-esteem and eventually decide that if our friends don't make time for us, they don't deserve us to make time for them.
ReplyDeleteWhat a fucking douche, whoever wrote that on your blog. Kind of sad, since I'm not even a really close friend, nor have I seen you in years yet I can see from here you're a good friend. So their gutless anonymous comment is stupid. You deserve good friends.